The word "girl" has been dissimilated in China. All the unmarried ladies can be called "girl",
even if they are more than 30 years old. One of my Chinese girl friends
is such a girl. Her mother has strict requirement on her mate. The
first requirement is that he must have a house without loan. The girl
herself of course also has some requirement on guys. He must be tall and
handsome. She was finally left over as time passes by.
Girls in America also marry lately. According to they survey made by "the knot Inc" on 19,000 new couples who married on the year of 2010,
the bridegrooms are 31 years old, the brides are 29 years old. The
American girls marry on 29 because they have to finish the undergraduate
even postgraduate study not due to the “house without loan”. So what’s
the spouse choosing criterion of American girls.
They are also such girls who earn moneys depend on youth and beauty. The
average-looking girl can earn 3000-5000 dollars per month, almost equal
to monthly salary of American young guys. The gorgeous ones ask ten of
thousands of dollars per month. The men who are willing to spend moneys
to spoil the girls are called "sugar daddy",
they are mostly old men. There are also "women seeking men", "men
seeking women", "women seeking women", "men seeking men" relationships
on American sites and medias. In the relationship of "women seeking
men", they are seeking spouse seriously. They claim clearly that no "one
night stand", no "mistress seeking", no "friends with benefits". The
serious girls are seeking marriage friends. Browsing some of their
public profiles, they have quite simple requirements but each have
different emphases, such as a generally good man, honesty, a sense of
humor is a must, must be no smoker and drug-free, between the age of
28-40, over 5-10 height but no one mentions the house.
The reasons of different spouse choosing criterion was called can be
found in the two countries' social background. The extent of men and
women equality is much higher than China. In their eyes, men and women
should share the responsibility. Everything should be equal. Not like in
China, the society has distributed many "should-be" roles to men and
women. In America, only one thing is "should-be", men should raise women
when they give birth children, the reason is simple, women can't let
men give birth children. So men should bear the living cost
independently.
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